Stimulus Drive

We all have struggles in our life. We all are struggling for something, somewhere at some moment. Everyone we meet has a different story to tell. But have you ever wondered that why we people are so attracted to a simple smile when we go through a bad day, why our eyes are filled with tears when all our problems come to an end? That's simply because we know what it is to be like having a bad day, a day full of struggle, hardships and what it is to be like having failed for number of times. And at that time a genuine smile on a person's face, a small joke, our favorite song on the radio, a little help, our friend's call and such tiny pleasures can become a significant one. Struggles let you appreciate life in a way that is different from all materialistic pleasures. It makes you understand that life is much greater than just making a living.  With every day to day struggles you start understanding the importance of relationships in your life - The people who matte

Failure . Just a word which possesses an ability to change the world. You might have seen people crying because of it, you might have seen them scared, feared to take an another step, worrying more and smiling less. Taste of Failure can be bitter or better. What it takes is a different outlook of it. Failure isn't a failure unless we start accepting it, until and unless we know what our capability is. Cause may be it isn't about the destination, may be it's about the journey.  The path you travel on is never easy, it's full of ups and downs, it's filled with adventures that will take your breath away, full of risks that are worth taking for. You might fall sometimes or oftentimes but that doesn't mean the road has ended.  Like a baby who crawls and is learning to stand up on his feets, fall again and again in the process. But never give up. They stand, they fall, they stand, they fall like hundreds of time and finally they learn to walk.  Your failure i

Since we have entered into the first month of this year,this title suits best. This is how we welcomed it yeah. Celebrating! Yay!! People sending wishes of new year from the last day, celebrating it's arrival, welcoming it with smiles on their faces and loved one's besides them. And then as the clock hits 12:00, you can see social media sites flooding with new year wishes, people posting groupfies, selfies all over. But then I also saw some moron faces with no excitement of the beginning of new year, with no smiles on their faces and with boring looks. "Haha, like seriously that made me laugh. I don't know why, may be because I understood the real reason behind every sorrow of our life. May be because this new year made me learn a new thing from the day it started and may be that's why I love it a little more." I was more startled when I heard people saying that they have no excitement of this new year because nothing is changed in their life, they h

We still live in our past, didn't we? And this has surely impacted our present. We read quotes that states of moving on, living your present and forgetting about past, we read it, give it a thought and move on, not from our past but actually from the quote we read and the thought we had. The time we think about our past happenings our mind passes through a memory lane which is so tempting that we are unknowingly forced to remember those days, people we were connected to and all the sweet memories with a pinch of salt on it. Some of our past happenings are so lovely that we miss them now and then we waste our time thinking of the ways to live them again conscious of it's impossibility. Rather than thinking of living in present and making new memories we dwell in the old ones. The fascination is so strong that we forget our true belonging. But is that how a life is lived? Worrying about the mistakes of past and uncertainty of future? A moment once gone is gone forever. Yes, we

This is what we ask ourselves everytime. Before or after, while doing anything or while making a decision. It automatically pops up in our head - I wanna start a new job (yay!) but What if it doesn't work well? I don't wanna do this anymore, What if others will question me? Yes there are times when a wise decision making needs all what ifs or what nots. But that doesn't mean every single and silly things in your life needs most of your brain's attention. It is not necessary to ask this question to yourself at every single step. I wanna dance. Should I? What If?? I wanna sing. What If people don't like. I wanna wear this dress. Oh it's so pretty but little shorter than my usual dresses. Should I wear it? What If?? And our continuous questionnaire goes on. Come on! These things aren't worth whole of your attention. Just stop behaving like a question paper. Make a decision, be fine with it and enjoy that very moment. You wanna visit that party, don't

There's a thing that we all do - We Pretend .Whether it's in front of our parents, our friends or whomsoever we meet. At times even I'm confused by the way I act or behave in a situation which never demanded that. And it is not a one person thing, we all somewhere at some point face this. So do we lack confidence or do we underestimate ourselves? What we do is we pretend to be someone else. We meet some persons and we try to be impressive in front of them. This even happens to me, my hand shakes and my head shivers. On due analysis of the situation I found that it wasn't due to lack of confidence or something like that. It was because at some point I tried to be the one I wasn't. This usually happens because we become conscious to other person's expressions. We see ourselves from that person's point of view. And thus we behave differently. This could sometimes put all our efforts in vain. Being yourself is not hard, it's all about being REAL and stop